Do you ever wonder why some families seem to flourish and why some families seem to fall apart ? Do you ever watch a family in the distance which appears to be so happy and say to yourself, "What does that family have going for them that my family doesn't have going for mine ?"
The truth is, all families appear to be perfect in the public eye. All families seem to "have it all". Every family.... Every individual (energy being) struggles with disappointment, failure, sadness as well as happiness within their lives. In the eye of the public, it appears that families "have it all" when in fact, they may be going through a very difficult time. A family may have just lost a loved one. A family may have just lost their job. A family may have just lost their income. A family may be struggling through some very difficult times. A family may be struggling through inner demons or possible failures that you do not even know about.
What is that old saying ? Things are not always as they may appear to be! Just because you came upon a "scene of what appeared to be an "accident" doesn't mean the "accident" was an "accident". The "accident" could have been "staged". Happiness may not be actual happiness. People smile when they are not actually inwardly happy. People cry for many reasons. They may not be crying because they are sad. They could be crying because they are happy ?! There are duel reasons for an energy being expressing their emotions in public. Things are not always as they appear to be, when an energy being is displaying their emotions around others in public. Many are either hiding their emotions. Many are expressing the wrong emotions. Many are attempting to keep everything under control for the sake of others while in public. All for the sake of their family unit.
"Welcome to disappointment! Just don't stay too long!!!"
Unfortunately, many individuals (energy beings) suffer from compulsive, obsessive personality disorders which causes problems for their entire family. It not only causes issues for themselves, it causes issues for their friends, co-workers and anyone this individual connects with. Compulsive, obsessive personality disorders that are severe causes the entire family to break down entirely.
Over time, this individual (energy being) becomes distressed from within and becomes completely unmanageable. Everyone eventually gets sucked into this individual's game because this individual has personality problems that no one in the public eye is aware of until it's too late. Many families can and often times do lose their homes; jobs; income; divorce or separate over such disorders, if only one family member suffers from such personality disorders.
"He (or she) is not normal", a family member will say. "I have known him (or her), now for years and I still have not figured him (or her) out yet!" the family members will proclaim. The family will become desperate to try and assist the individual (energy being) whom has the severe compulsive, obsessive personality disorder, but the family is so heavily involved in the individual's drama, they become blind to the facts, the truth as well as the reality of what is happening before their very eyes.
Some family members may actually be assisting the clinically diagnosed individual (energy being) for a promise..money or because they were threatened. The drama becomes a deep, tangled web in which the clinically ill individual (energy being) has created for the entire family unit.
The family members whom are involved with the individual doesn't know how to break away from the one whom has the actually illness ! The family members literally become ill (emotionally ) and they even become co-dependent because they can NOT say NO to the individual whom has been clinically diagnosed with the illness....ie...the compulsive, obsessive, personality disorder!
Unfortunately, many family members become so involved with whom was clinically diagnosed with the compulsive, obsessive, personality disorder that they do whatever the ill individual tells them to do.......even when they know what it is they are doing is wrong!
Many ill individuals (energy beings) become a shadow of themselves because they lose sight of whom they are and what their goals originally were. Some don't know why they do the things that they do. Many are aware of the things they are doing and they no longer care! Many individuals (energy beings) choose to do the things they are doing for selfish reasons! They are selfish, self centered and have chosen to no longer care about their family members! Many are aware they are suppose to see a physician, however, their family members can't get these individuals under control and the individuals (energy beings) are out of control and these individuals (energy beings) know they are out of control.
These individuals (energy beings) know they are dragging their family members through the matrix of chaos, but their family members don't realize what these ill individuals (energy beings) are doing to them. These individuals (energy beings) are like energy vampires! They are slowly draining their family members of every ounce of energy from their bodies....little by little.... until there is NOTHING left of them.... On purpose!
It's like a vampire draining blood from a human being's neck! One day, the human being wakes up to find themselves becoming just like the vampire whom bit them! Suddenly, they've become the undead! Now THEY need to find a human being to feed upon. They need to drain BLOOD from a human being because THEY'VE been infected by the vampire whom bit THEIR neck! The vicious cycle will always continue until someone finds a stake to drive it right into that vampire's heart after they wait until that vampire goes to sleep in their coffin during the day! The vampire never sleeps at night! The only time a vampire comes out of their coffin is when they seek new victims! A vampire can not handle the sun! That vampire is constantly seeking to drain the life out of its next victim! Always seeking its next meal! This is similiar behavior for an individual (energy being) clinically diagnosed with a personality disorder whom is aware they are distressing their family members on purpose! They are literally draining the energy life force from their family members!
NOTHING is ever going to change if family members continue assisting the individual (energy being) with their dirty deeds and are acting as their "cohort" ! It's shameful at best! Family members whom are doing these things should be ashamed of themselves!
When a family situation arises, everyone cries "FOWL" ! Say what ? Everyone wants to cry fowl when the situation reaches the maximum point, yet the situation was an issue right from the very start! Their is no reconciliation with an individual (energy being) whom suffers from severe compulsive, obsessive, personality disorders! Families can not allow the individual (energy being) to suck them into their drama and continue to drain them of their energy! Families must nip these individuals (energy beings) IN THE BUD immediately! Families must force these individuals (energy beings) into therapy and force these individuals (energy beings) to see their physicians on a regular basis!
While true that many of these individuals (energy beings) are adults and it is difficult to force adults to remain in control, family members can make choices of their own. Family members can refuse to assist these individuals (energy beings) ! Family members can refuse to not speak to these individuals (energy beings) as well as NOT become a part of the drama that these individuals (energy beings) are creating for the entire dwelling. Co-workers can refuse to become a part of the drama being created by the individual (energy being). Friends can refuse to become a part of the drama being created by the individual (energy being). Everyone can refuse to become a part of the drama being created by the individual (energy being). It is quite simple when you look at the entire picture as a whole!
The feuding caused by an individual (energy being) whom suffers from a severe compulsive, obsessive personality disorder creates nothing except negativity and hatred within the entire family unit. The individual (energy being) actually depends upon everyone whom is residing within the dwelling and can NOT function without the members, even if they proclaim that they can. The reality is, the individual (energy being) is not mentally well. Obviously the individual (energy being) has been clinically diagnosed as BEING mentally unwell by a physician. However, family members have become co-dependent and blind to these facts, for some unknown reason. They now have been drained by the actual ill individual (energy being) and are emotionally unwell. They are blind to the facts and the individual (energy being) continues to blah, blah, blah to the family members whom are residing in the same dwelling possible threats....whatever they may be. Every family member within that dwelling is going through their own personal, serious crisis, even if they are not willing to admit it. No one actually wants to give that ill individual (energy being) any time, but it is quite possible the ill individual (energy being) has done nothing but spew out repeated threats to every family member whom resides in the same dwelling as him or herself.
It's a very sad, sad situation for the entire family in reality. In the public eye, this type of family may appear to be a happy one. However, this family unit is more than likely crumbling apart; has lost their home; has lost income; has lost family members; isn't what it appears to be at all! These members are smiling....but within....these individuals (energy beings) are NOT happy at all!
OUT OF CONTROL AND THEY KNOW IT
When energy beings are out of control from being clinically diagnosed with compulsive, obsessive personality disorders.... regardless of what type of disorders they may be.... they are mentally, emotionally unwell as well as unfit and out of control. Many are aware of what it is they are doing to themselves as well as to their own family members. Certainly, their family members are aware of what it is these individuals (energy beings) are doing to them; their co-workers ARE aware of the bizarre behavior (even if they don't know the individual (energy being) has a clinical mental health issue); their friends....even if the friends are not close friends are aware something is NOT right with the individual (energy being) over time...even if their close friends or acquaintances are not aware that the individual (energy being) has been diagnosed with a personality disorder.
When an energy being is out of control from a clinical diagnosed personality disorder, the individual (energy being) is still going to look normal to the public eye. However, the individual (energy being) is NOT going to behave in a normal fashion to close friends; co-workers; family members and others whom this individual (energy being) is always having contact with. This individual (energy being) can lie to themselves.........but only for so long to those they have daily contact with...before the truth is revealed about themselves. Repeated outbursts; meltdowns; difficulties concentrating; issues with friends, family members, co-workers; blaming others for their own problems; desperate for attention; Doing things they know they should not be doing...but doing them anyway. Getting family members to do things for them, knowing they'll get into trouble...but doing them anyway. Repeatedly wanting to get into trouble just to see if they can get away with things. Not being a good example as a parent. Doing bad things, just because. The list of things just go on and on and on for individuals (energy beings) whom suffer from personality disorders and have been clinically diagnosed as such.
Many individuals (energy beings) attempt to live a normal life, but many are not capable of doing so. Many family members try to assist these individuals (energy beings) in living a normal life, but the individual (energy being) often times cons family members into believing they do NOT need assistance! They will attempt to live a normal life but their obsessions can become too extreme and too severe. Over the years, many individuals must eventually become institutionalized.
An individual (energy being) whom has a diagnosed compulsive obsessive personality disorder may appear to be a normal looking individual on the outside, in the public eye. However, these individuals (energy beings) are far from normal on the inside! The compulsions are so severe that many individuals begin to hallucinate because they may have been placed on several medications given to them by their physicians. This causes further issues for their family members whom are more than likely residing with them in the same dwelling. Compulsions can become frequent, constant or daily. The individual (energy being) may carry out their compulsions while family members are sleeping and family members may or may not even know these individuals (energy beings) are carrying out these compulsions while they are sleeping.
It is quite possible that many family members ARE aware that these individuals (energy beings) ARE carrying out these compulsions while they are sleeping and they no longer care. That is how exasperated they've become with the situation caused by this individual (energy being).
Many rituals, compulsions as well as obsessions can be so frequent for the individual (energy being) that they become debilitating for all of the family members. Everyone whom is connected with the individual (energy being) whom has been diagnosed with the personality disorder usually suffers as well. Perhaps not as much as the individual (energy being), but the old saying goes...."misery enjoys company"...and the individual (energy being) actually does want everyone to suffer right along with them.
Many times, these individuals (energy beings) are aware why they are causing the misery and they enjoy causing the misery toward their family members. These individuals (energy beings) could NOT survive without their family members on an emotional or mental health sense. Many of these individuals (energy beings) could not actually survive without their family members on a financial sense and do need the support of their family members on multiple levels.
GETTING YOUR DUCKS IN A ROW
Get your ducks in a row if you know someone whom suffers from a compulsive, obsessive personality disorder! Many individuals (energy being) do NOT seek treatment....refuse to continue with treatment if they have sought treatment .....nor will they abide by the physician's recommendations or take their medications after they've received them! Many individuals (energy beings) are very aware of what it is they are doing to their family members and they do what it is they are doing, on purpose!
The thoughts that go through the mind of an individual (energy being) whom suffers from these personality disorders will vary. No one actually knows what goes through the mind of these individuals (energy beings) except for the individual (energy being) whom is suffering. Their thoughts may race.......their thoughts may be disturbing....... their thoughts may be harmful toward themselves as well as toward others! What family members should know is that under no circumstances should they assist these individuals or approve of these individuals doing harmful things toward others!!! Under NO circumstances should family members help these individuals do wrong things toward others when they know for a fact what it is they are doing are wrong!
Whom was clinically diagnosed ? Them or the actually ill individual (energy being) ??? Family members better switch their glasses and take a step back to look at reality! Look at the facts! Stop being sucked into the game in which the clinically diagnosed, ill individual (energy being) continues to pull you into! Like an energy draining vampire....the clinically diagnosed individual will constantly drag family members whom reside within the same dwelling, repeatedly......over and over again.....into their game until every ounce of energy has been drained from them!
If the individual (energy being) is draining away income, has caused a home as well as personal possessions to become lost due to their out of control behavior, the individual (energy being) will continue to control each and every family member in this same manner until nearly all has been lost or everything has been lost.
This same issue will continue with the individual (energy being) because their illness is severe and their illness has caused them to become OUT OF CONTROL. So long as their family members continues to assist these individuals (energy beings); continues to act as this individual's co-hort; Refuses to acknowledge that they've become co-dependent for this individual (energy being), this will always be an issue for this type of family unit.
Remember.... Welcome to disappointment !!! Just don't stay to long!!!
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Individuals (energy beings) FEEL that others have deserted them, when in fact that is not the truth. In fact, they have deserted themselves. These individuals (energy beings) are at odds within their own mind, body and soul. They are compulsive and obsessed with doing the wrong thing, at the wrong time at odd hours of the day....sometimes a little bit! Sometimes frequently! Sometimes all the time!
These individuals (energy beings) may want to harm themselves, their friends, their co-workers as well as their own family members. Many times they are happy, sad, distressed.....they are on an emotional roller coaster and they do not know why. Sometimes they know why...sometimes they don't. Many know exactly why they are going for that roller coaster ride. Many aren't sure why. Many enjoy roller coaster rides. They enjoy vomiting AFTER they get off of the roller coaster because of the "high" that the roller coaster has provided for them! It's the getting OFF portion of the roller coaster they don't enjoy, afterwards!
Clinically diagnosed individuals (energy beings) may feel that life is "too demanding" . They may feel that some energy beings are a "bad influence" . Some may feel that other energy beings don't "help enough". There aren't enough reasons given by individuals (energy beings) whom are clinically diagnosed with personality disorders to go around for why they are distressed, upset, happy, sad or emotionally unfit...unwell....not capable of handling the day to day tasks that is a necessity for them to reside within the matrix of chaos on their own. Not enough energy beings care!
Not enough energy beings call! Too many energy beings avoid me! I am not being helped enough! I am gaining too much weight, but I can't put the spoon and fork down or away from my mouth! I keep gaining all of this weight, yet for some reason, I know the spoon and the fork continues to go toward my mouth with all the wrong types of food! My feet hurt all day long and yet, for some reason, I continue to purchase shoes with tall heels on the back of them! My bills keep piling up and for some reason, I continue to go out and shop all day long! What ?? What ?? I don't know why that is ?? The reasons given by an individual (energy being) whom has been clinically diagnosed with personality disorders are quite staggering. These individuals (energy beings) enjoy blaming everyone around them except for the ones causing the actual problems....themselves!
A happy family is a family whom can understand what the problem is; can say NO to the one suffering from the clinically diagnosed personality disorder; can love this individual (energy being) enough to say NO; is capable of NOT allowing the individual (energy being) to drain them of their energy; and if it's necessary...is capable of simply walking out on them...leaving them alone to deal with their mental crisis...all on their own! The family HAS to love that individual enough to HELP that individual because being a co-hort...being co-dependent is NOT helping!! It is destroying them! The family is actually hurting them!!
The fear of change is great! The fear of change is for the entire family unit as a whole. Perhaps the individual (energy being) is aware they are causing distress to the entire family unit, perhaps they are not. Either way, change is a MUST if harmony, joy, peace and happiness is to be restored for the family unit, as a whole.
Many individuals (energy beings) are afraid of treatment or they may not be able to take the medications that has been prescribed to them by their physicians. Perhaps certain medications have caused them to become ill. These things have to be discussed with their families as well as the individual (energy being) when medications or a treatment plan has failed. This depends on how severe the illness is and if the individual (energy being) understands how medication works and/or treatment/medications have failed.
Certain medications will make individuals (energy beings) ill and many medications do have bad side affects. All of these things must be discussed with the family unit as a whole. Treatment plans may be difficult to follow. Treatment plans may not work. Certain personality disorders may never be understood nor diagnosed properly. Training may be lacking from particular clinics and many individuals (energy beings) give up when all is said and done. Perhaps a new plan should be considered. Perhaps a spa for relaxation should be considered. Perhaps other treatments should be considered. Medication + spa treatment for relaxation should be considered.
Unfortunately, many individuals (energy beings) may not be able to afford treatment or medications. Many family units have lost their home, income as well as personal possessions due to what an individual (energy being) has put them through. Severe personality disorders can cause an entire family to lose everything, even though they are smiling on the outside when they are in the public eye. A number of resources offer information about prescription assistance, including the Partnership for Prescription Assistance (1-888-4PPA-NOW or http://www.pparx.org) and NeedyMeds (http://www.needymeds.com/).
Families without health care or whose insurance may not be able to afford to assist an individual (energy being) whom is suffering with a personality disorder suffers greatly! Their suffering should never be taken lightly. Many times, they are struggling as the individual (energy being) is obtaining off and on treatment that they desperately need. There are many cognitive behavioral therapists whom may be able to offer a sliding fee scale. They can base this upon the family's ability to pay for treatment.
Remember, actual treatment and taking medications is a responsibility in which falls upon the individual (energy being) whom was clinically diagnosed with the illness, not just the family. However, everyone whom resides within the same dwelling as the individual (energy being) is actually suffering. "Misery loves company" !!
Many individuals (energy beings) will postpone treatment claiming they are "too busy" . Family members will ignore the obvious and claim they don't "see" the reality or the truth of what has been going on before their very eyes! Until everyone has actually deserted the individual (energy being) due to their clinical obsessive, compulsive personality disorder, many will refuse to refrain from the behaviors in which is driving everyone away from them! Family members need to learn how to SAY NO to an individual (energy being) whom is suffering and at least LOVE THEM enough...to say NO!
All that glitters is NOT gold! Dear family members, the least YOU can do is LOVE the clinically diagnosed individual (energy being) enough...to say NO! DO NOT become their "co-hort" ! DO NOT conspire with them to do wrong things when you know what they are doing is wrong! DO NOT assist them with their compulsions. DO NOT assist them with their obsessions. ENSURE they take the proper medications when you know they must take them! ENSURE they are going to their doctor appointments when you know they are suppose to be going to one!
ENSURE they are going to therapy when you know they are suppose to be going to therapy! DO NOT become a slave to their compulsions and obsessions! Make sure these individuals (energy beings) are getting proper rest as well as the proper sleep that they desperately need. DO NOT do the things they are asking YOU to do in which you know are wrong things! If you are doing wrong things now...stop it! You are acting as a devil's advocate for these individuals (energy beings) as they are draining away your energy and going no where...fast! You are losing everything quickly and for no good reason!
The cosmic universe asks that all energy beings restore harmony, happiness, joy and peace to their family units. This can not happen if individuals (energy beings) deliberately drain away energy from their family members and know they are doing this on purpose. If an individual (energy being) has been clinically diagnosed with a mental health problem and they are causing their family members to become ill right along with them...on purpose...shame...shame on them! They are deliberately causing an imbalance to their family unit on purpose! Every family has a right to joy! Peace! Happiness! Harmony!
WELCOME TO DISAPPOINTMENT! JUST DON'T STAY TO LONG!
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